Patterns & Behaviour

Performance Anxiety

When you know you're capable — until it's time to perform

When you know you're capable — until it's time to perform

You know the material.

You've prepared.

You've practised.

And then the moment arrives.

Your heart races.

Your hands shake.

Your mind goes blank.

Suddenly, the thing you knew five minutes ago feels inaccessible.

Performance anxiety can show up anywhere performance matters.

You might recognise yourself in this

  • Fear of public speaking
  • Interview anxiety
  • Exam nerves
  • Stage fright
  • Freezing or blanking out
  • Racing thoughts
  • Physical tension
  • Fear of being judged
  • Avoiding opportunities that involve performance
  • Feeling capable in private but different under pressure

Why knowing isn't always enough

Performance isn't purely intellectual.

When your nervous system perceives a situation as threatening, your experience can change.

The presentation becomes:

“What if I embarrass myself?”

The interview becomes:

“What if they realise I'm not good enough?”

The exam becomes:

“What if I fail?”

The stage becomes:

“Everyone is watching me.”

The fear can become bigger than the task itself.

Look beyond the moment

Sometimes performance anxiety is connected to what the situation represents.

Being judged.

Making mistakes.

Disappointing someone.

Being seen.

Failing.

Being rejected.

Not being good enough.

Understanding that connection can help you work with the pattern rather than simply trying to suppress the physical symptoms.

How RTT may fit into the picture

RTT incorporates hypnosis and other therapeutic techniques that may be used to explore beliefs and emotional responses connected to performance anxiety.

The work can focus on the internal experience surrounding the performance — not simply rehearsing the performance itself.

For public speaking, interviews, examinations or other important moments, the goal is to help you develop greater confidence, awareness and choice in how you respond under pressure.

You already know more than anxiety sometimes allows you to access.

The work is about creating more room for the capable version of you to show up.

Understanding can be a beginning.

When you are ready to explore what this means for you, Desiree can help you choose an appropriate next step.